How often do your find yourself feeling burned out, overwhelmed, or just plain blah? You know what the perfect antidote is? Booking in for a session in our Charleston boudoir studio. Before your mind starts racing with reasons why you can’t do this, I’m going to give you a bunch of reasons why you CAN. No more excuses. If you want to find out more, definitely check out my private VIP group here.
I’m too busy to take time for myself right now.
If not now, when? Seriously… There is never going to be the “right” time to do something like this. You have to make time for YOU… your sanity depends on it! It’s so important to remember that if you aren’t taking care of yourself mentally and physically, you will never be in a good position emotionally, to take care of anyone else. You must occasionally choose to slow down and breathe. Taking a few hours for yourself to relax and get pampered is the perfect “time out.” A shoot will leave you with an emotional high that will last for days. The feelings that come from not only doing something wonderful for yourself, but also silencing your inner critic, are priceless.
I need to lose weight first.
I can’t tell you how many women book a session 6 months out with the goal of losing 10 pounds before they come in. You know how many actually lose the weight? None. I get so many panicked emails the night before a session from clients telling me that they feel uncomfortable with their bodies and are freaking out. Here’s the deal. The confidence comes from actually doing the shoot. There is no better way to feel good about where you are RIGHT NOW, than to just do the damn thing. There is no perfect weight or magic number on a scale that will make you feel more amazing than seeing the magic we create together.
I don’t feel sexy anymore.
Aye yi yi. How the heck are you supposed to feel sexy if all you do is run around like a maniac taking care of everyone else all the time? This is the exact reason why you NEED to do a shoot. There is nothing that will spark your feminine energy and sexuality the way that this will. So many clients have told me how much sharing their photos with their spouse sparked a new connection and reignited something they thought was lost. I know it seems like the farthest thing from your mind sometimes, but think about how that would feel. Rediscovering yourself serious game changer!
I have no idea what to wear.
This is an easy one. When you’re booked in for a shoot with me, I send you a VERY detailed wardrobe guide. It’s full of inspiration photos of real clients, explanations on what looks good on certain body types, and even links on where to buy certain pieces. I also keep a small wardrobe closet here in the studio. If lingerie, isn’t your thing, that’s okay, too. There are so many options from sweet to sultry.
I don’t have anyone to do it for.
This one cracks me up every time. It’s for YOU. Even if you’re thinking about doing this for a birthday gift to your partner, or an anniversary gift for your spouse, it’s for you. While it’s easier to rationalize making an investment like this with the idea of giving it as a gift, you will find that it’s a bigger gift to yourself. So girl, you don’t need a reason “why” or a person to gift them to. This is about you and “just because” is reason enough.
I don’t have the money.
Boudoir photography is an investment, no doubt. You definitely don’t want to cut corners when it comes to intimate photos. It is so important to me that I give you the experience of a lifetime and the most beautiful, high quality products to go with it. There are multiple options for payment plans both before and after your session. We will find a way to make your payments comfortable.
If you’re still not convinced, check out this post about a session I did with Shannon when she was not having the best day. Also you can find my Top Tips To Prepare For Your Boudoir Session here.
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